As I reach my final days of college and this blog is titled, "From Convent to College," I thought I would share with you some final posts. Many are drafts of posts that I wrote sometime between 2017 and now. It felt like a pile of worms had been dumped into my stomach. I forced down a sip of water on the hot, August day. Too nervous to listen to music, I turned off the car radio. There it was. Central Michigan University. My parents drove behind me in our other family van, containing my twin sister's (she also went to CMU) couch and other supplies for my dorm room. It was 2016. A year ago, at this time, I was in the emergency room for suicidal ideation. Two years ago, at this time, I was preparing to enter a convent. With those experiences behind me, I was now a 19 (almost 20) year-old freshman in college, but those experiences were ingrained deeply in me and would influence my actions. I drove toward the freshman dorms. Social anxiety attack! Look at all of those people! Cars were everywhere. People were everywhere, carrying and wheeling their things into their dorm. College student now. Ok. I can do this. I fiddled with my t-shirt, instead of the hospital gown I had grown accustomed to during my emergency room stays. I patted down my hair which wasn't covered with the little white veil I wore at the convent. Jesus, I'm so happy You're here on campus. He was pretty happy too. The Catholic church was less than a ten-minute walk from my dorm, right at the center of campus. I'm telling you, transitions are so much easier when you have your best friend beside you, especially when your best friend is the Best Friend. It was time for me to participate fully in the world. Previously, I was in a cloistered convent, which is totally separated from the world. Then, my hospital stays had me pretty isolated from the world too. College though--public college--was a step into the world. Some of it was great and some of it freaked the life out of me (still does). School. Food. Drink. Money. Make-up. Clothes. Media. Sex. Music. Netflix. They aren't in themselves bad things, but they can definitely be abused. Now, for a girl with scrupulosity, this is pretty scary stuff to encounter. Not to mention the swearing, extreme political views, crude humor, and outrageous dress. I've gotten past most of my naïve shock to such things. I used to cringe every single time I heard the Lord's name taken in vain. Sometimes I still do, but I've grown used to it. Things like that have been unpleasant, but there are some really pleasant things I've discovered on campus. I already mentioned Jesus and a nearby Catholic church. The community there was top-notch. They were super accepting and the friendliest people I knew. The church had Mass, adoration, social events, speakers, service, food, recreation, and formation. And it's really pretty on the inside. Ok, besides the church? The library is pretty nifty--you can even rent out a private study room! There is always a coffee shop nearby. The chalking on the ground is fun to read and keeps you updated (when it's not snowing). Oh, yeah...and the reason why I'm here...school. I began with just some basic general education requirements, but I've already learned so much and discovered so many things--it's incredible! I've never studied sociology, geology, or psychology before. I've never taken a backpacking class either, until now. I look to Jesus and say to Him, Hey, education is pretty cool. He smiles and agrees, but isn't surprised when I look to Him the next day and say, Hey! I'm pretty sure my professor personally hates me. Also, is it humanly possible to finish all of this homework? The pile of worms in my stomach has squirmed away for the most part. I still get super nervous over different things socially, academically, and situation-ally, but I've adjusted well to college. With the exploding love of the Holy Spirit, Jacqueline
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