Let's think of some stereotypes for "old people." They are slow, smelly, like bingo, talk too much, are cranky, and are not the prettiest to look at.
Well, I am writing today to say that I love old people. I like my elders. They are precious members of our Church and precious members of our world. This week, I went to a nursing home with my Grandma to help lead a rosary. Now, this is all just my experience, but I think it rings true for others: Old people make me feel great about myself. They are quick to compliment, easily impressed, and tell me how beautiful I am. They are gift-givers. It's not so much that they are nit-picky about say, setting a table for dinner; it is that they care deeply for the importance of their task. I think of how reverently and slowly my elders prayed the rosary this week. I think of how excited they get when a visitor comes. I think of how they love young people because they love youthful smiles, energy, dreams, and talents. Elders are slow--it's true. But perhaps it is we young people who are moving too fast. Perhaps it is the elderly who are closer to God's time. They may put all of their efforts into eating one meal or going to the grocery store, but in this, they are living the "Little Way" of St. Therese. They are not doing big, extravagant acts of holiness, but are offering themselves to God even in the slow rhythm of their daily lives. And here is another thing I want to say: The elderly love you! They are praying for you. They are watching you grow. They see great beauty in you. They love your attention and ear to listen. They love a soft touch on the shoulder or a warm clutch of a hand. I have a friend who thinks old people are cute, and I have to agree! They are easily pleased and love to be loved. The elderly are a part of our Church. Let us not forget them. Let us be attentive to them and see the face of Christ in them.
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